Saturday, May 11, 2013

My First Love...



The title may make you feel as I am going to talk something steamy, or it may bring a glimpse of smile in your face indicating your quick remembrance of something you have come across. I have reasons to keep this title and I cherish those reasons, to make my Mother's day remembrance keeping my Mother as My first love...

My first cell is created with my mother’s energy,

My first heart beat came with the help of her blood,

My first breath came with the air filtered by her, for me, for me alone, the purest in the world,

My first food intake is from her stomach, the finest food, full of energy and nutrients the food which you can’t get in any cuisine,

My first cry came with her pain, the toughest ever a human being can bear, that announced my existence and arrival to this world,

My first smile came on seeing her face, the first and only moment that my smile pleases a heart to the core,

My first movement is to catch her finger, the safest ever moment of anyone’s life,

My first crawling was to move away from her but only to announce that I am growing,

My first walk and my first fall, the moment which made my mother happy and tensed in a microsecond’s transition,

My first learning came from the words of her mouth,

My first language probably the first ever word of this world, “amma”..

The first kiss I ever felt, the first warmth I have ever cheered is from her,

She taught me my first dress up, the most handsome or most beautiful look of mine was when I was in her lap,

She gave me my first name, it is not the one you all know as my name, it was the beautiful versions of ordinary names which quoted with the honey of love, Chikku, Kutty, Mammu…



She is my first school, she taught me the one which all the universities I came across didn’t, it is Love, it is humanity, it is attitude, it is life as a whole..

She took her everyday experience with me as first happiness, by keeping all her wishes last,

She kept me coming first..

My first Cheer, my first hurt, first fight, first ego, first burst out, first curling everything on her, by her, with her, to her and for her..

Everyone says Mother is the first god, the unseen god’s virtual version is our mother, or Mother’s extended version is god,

A mother is incomparable to any of the relationships you commit in life, it is due to million reasons, the unselfishness, dedications, care, love, pains she took for you, the understanding she carries on you and your desires makes her the first and the ultimatum of all relationships..

What’s her care on you is unimaginable as her every cell of thinking is designed to care about her kids, you just can’t expect this with anyone in this world, that makes my mother, your mother as unique…

My mom hardly educated, but taught me the toughest lessons of this life, that none of the people could teach me..

How her thinking, acting, forecasting, managing of all activities, all rotate on her kids and family, it is the very management lesson of focus on objectives, Harvard or every B School tries to teach to this world,

I am not keeping my mother on top of the world because she benefitted me, any mother is on top of the world, only because they benefit their kids by dedicating and losing their lives,

She is my first love, She is my Mother…

There is only one beautiful Mother in this world that every kid in this world has.